Mr Wrong Jog On

Lyrical Healer

I Am Present. I Am Enough.

Meet Winsome Duncan aka Lyrical Healer. She is intelligent, gorgeous, inspiring and super talented yet she too, has had various encounters with Mr Wrong. Have a read of her fabulous contribution Mr Wrong Jog On– an ode to all women who have lived and learned from men who should have valued them more that the Love you have for Your Self is The Greatest Love of All.Peace and Love

Daniella x

Mr Wrong Jog On…

There was something in the wind today, it made me stop, and realise a change is coming. I knew whole heartedly, I had to let him go. Maybe it was because he rarely returned my calls. Why has Mr. Wrong got me singing another sad song? Got me thinking of heartbreak classics like:

• Love Don’t Know Live Here Anymore
• Love is a Losing Game
• Un-break my Heart
• End of the Road
• I’d Rather go Blind
• Heartbreak Hotel
• A View to a Kill

I mean the list goes on and on. I always tend to listen and engage in sad music, when his rejection disturbs and destroys my spirit. “You’re a strong woman I heard him say.” I laugh through my salted tears as I aimlessly try to pull it together in the final frame.

One thing that was transparent to me, Mr Wrong wanted a booty call from the get go. It was as plain as the nose on my face. Now I sit here with no embrace and a longing to know why is unrequited love such a bitch?

Mr Wrong sang a song of ‘I’m just getting out of a relationship’ which chorused into “I got plenty girls to select from here there and everywhere”. The most intimate part of me he desired and all he was offering was the magic stick. We talked of bargaining service and how we could best service each other but never ever about the potential of me being wifey. If I was his lover for the moments he needed me, I was accepted and if not I was banished to the non-existed call back list. He had no love for the inner thigh, let alone the dreams that died in my womb. Mr Wrong just wants to use and abuse because of some maladjusted issues in his previous history.

He never saw the tears on my pillow that ached for his attention. I cried for days, longing to hold him. Puffy eyelids, which would never receive him. How could he not see the Healer in me? Where did I go wrong? Was it the need for my care that made me call as he beckoned me in my nightmares? It might just be the fact that he is a self-centred ass. Super absorbed and so selfish that he cares not for the hearts he trashes.

So where am I now? I am standing on the edge of time because Mr Wrong does not want me. I often wondered, dissected, deliberated and analysed his actions with it could be this it could be that. What if I was smaller, darker or richer? Would he open his eyes to the woman that wanted to share her world with him? Guess not.

I rot in my pain and on occasions turned deranged but today I found the golden courage to love again. Yeah love the pain, the inner me that bleeds all over tormented thoughts of his dismissal. I just knew enough was enough. It’s time to get tough and recognise my Queendom. Too many of my sisters are down trodden by toxic sexual interaction but really needed divine protection but instead have fallen into webs of deceptions, abusers and users. Cupid please dust off my heart for it is covered in broken promises. I write this so that some poor lady can see their reflection and mend their shattered hearts. Who needs another?

• Mr Wrong
• Mr No-Good
• Mr Down-low
• Mr Wasteman
• Mr Tag A Long
• Mr Abandonment
• Mr Liar Liar Pants On Fire
• Mr I Can’t Keep My Penis In My Pants

He had not even got credit on his phone and dates are non-existence. Yet he still whispers ‘Can I come to your place for dinner?’ Oh please, stop, don’t want to hear it no more, tell it to the violins. Mr. Can’t work – won’t work and I am losing sleep. Oh please! This is just one experience, some thoughts, one dream that never saw daylight and died along with vampires at first dawn. I wish for self-confidence now and inner peace.

This is one of Healer’s tales that speaks into the spirited woman globally and changes lives on an invisible levels. I feel you. We all want answers as to why we keep opening the door to Mr. Wrong. Woman love thy self-enough, to walk away and restore. You are worth it. Ignite the flame of dignity and follow me on the path of resurrection. This one is for the ladies because I have heard you singing a bitter song. Fold yourself in Angel wings and embrace the harsh reality. Mr. Wrong- get gone, pack your things and jog on! I do not want to be bogged down by your narcissistic alter ego. I could say lot more and make it really raw however I will leave it there. I will no longer grieve for unrequited love. I honoured myself enough to say goodbye and farewell. If I never see you again it will be too soon.

A woman scorned is enough said. These times are dread. I do believe in the power of goodbye. I never had more clarity then what I process currently. If I ever fall in love again he will be my:

■Soul mate
■A hand to hold

True love does exist. It flourishes from within. Never stop believing that you will love again. You see I heard it in the wind and she whispered ‘It’s time to let him go.’

Lyrical Healer

Lyrical Healer, is a poetess, songstress, author, entrepenuar and fundraiser . Please check out her brilliant blog at Lyrical Healer Blog This incredible woman has accomplished amazing things and is only at the start of her success! She recently raised money to go out to Haiti three years after the terrible earthquake to offer a positive contributiuon towards the reconstruction and growth of Haiti and it’s people.

She has also just finished her film The Healer In Me which was aired on The Community Channel. Check out her trailer here The Healer In Me Trailer  and watch the film at The Healer In Me Film.

Keep on doing ya thang girl you are an empowering inspiration 🙂

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For more info check out My About Page and read some of my earlier posts for excerpts of the book Excerpts

4 thoughts on “Mr Wrong Jog On

  1. Dear Danni,
    You are a delight to know. The work you are doing will aid ladies on a global level.I remember a time not to long ago when I bumped into Mr Wrong left, right and centre. Only the strong continue and as soon as we realise that we are worthy to be cherished that is when our lives open up and change. I am super excited to be a part of this pioneering book. It inspires me to know there are women like you who are gifted and want to help make a difference. I salute you and keep on in your pursuit of peace, love, excellence and happiness. If your bloggers want to know a little bit more about what I do, they can check my film ‘The Healer In Me’ as seen on TV and BBC iPlayer. Peace. Link here

  2. Reblogged this on Lyrical Healer's Blog and commented:
    Danni you are a superwoman and we need someone like you with your deep insights into toxic relationships, with the ever so charming Mr Wrong. I encouraged all my bloggers to go over and check out your blogs not just the one I wrote. You are changing women’s lives and equipping them to make better choices within their relationships. I am glad to add to your forth coming book ‘Jog on Mr Wrong’ to your ever going collection. My prayer and heartfelt desire is that my words will resonate and begin the healing in so many wounded hearts. God bless and peace be onto you. The Healer In Me.

  3. Lovely, very inspirational. You are amazing, find that confidence & keep believing in love & all will be good for sure. I totally know that kind of situation, but appreciate every moment of it, for how terrible it was because, thanks to it, I finally fell in love with the person that will be in my life forever; my very own self. 🙂 You have my support & I am cheering for you (:

    • Thank you for such a lovely response. Yes self love is extremely important. Without it, how can we love or be loved by another? Check out my poem Strong Woman at

      Follow my blog and keep up to date with latest posts, views, comments, stories and poems from other contributors. If you have a story to tell then please inbox me or post a link to your page. I would love to hear your story and am always seeking more stories from women who wish to contribute to the book. Take care. Daniella x

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