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The King..

He is a man who is bold; he knows what he wants and is not afraid to go for it, make his intentions known. This man has a crystal clear vision about who he is and what he wants to achieve. He is not afraid of his emotions, or scared to be vulnerable.

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When he looks at her, he sees her. Really sees her. He sees not with his eyes but with his heart. He feels her in his mind, his breath, his Soul. He embraces her Strength, her weaknesses and flaws and encourages her to be the best woman she can be. He recognises the woman in front of him; the heart of gold, the pureness of heart and freedom of Spirit. What she does interests him. He wants to see her happy. He loves to see her smile. He wants to protect her, look after her despite her independence.

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He sees through her invisible barriers, brings out the vulnerable young girl…that playful young girl and encapsulates her in his heart, protects her with his might so, never again will she feel unsafe or insecure. He does not complete her, as she is already complete.  He simply allows her to Be. He does not patronise or demean, but recognises the small child that resides within the warrioress woman and dutifully protects her like the Guardian of her Heart.

Protective, not possessive. He likes her to have her own freedom. He loves her free spirited nature. She’s a thinker, a creator, a visionary. He supports her in her dreams and has faith in her vision.

twin-flames-kissing-sunlightShe asked God to send her a man who falls in love with her mind. A man who seeks to enhance her light, not dim it; a man who lets the butterfly fly, not crush it; a man who smiles when she succeeds and holds her hand when she fails; a man who, through it all, is the wind beneath her sails. He sees her Inner Beauty and recognises that her outer beauty is merely a reflection of her Heart, her Soul, her Innermost Being.

He.. sees no weakness in putting his woman first, sees no shame in words like “I love you” or “you mean everything to me,” sees no embarrassment in expressing his desires to her, seeks no hiding place in which to allow his love to dwell unheard. No, this man stands boldly beside her. He is her equal and she, his. Masculine and feminine energy together entwined, beautifully complemented like ying and yang on FIRE!

He has her back, stands unashamedly shrouded in Loyalty, cloaked in Trust and in turn is entrusted with her heart; this, he holds with the greatest of care and utmost respect. Anything less from himself, he will not accept. He does not place her on a pedestal or enforce false and unrealistic expectations on her but accepts her as all that she was, is and will be to come.

Together they have a great sense of adventure, a great sense of fun. Unified, they explore together, love together and, most importantly, laugh together. Humour is the river that runs through all things. Humour creates a sense of lightness, like flying with wings. Lightness brings a free flowing energy essential to survive. Without laughter, you miss the joy and beauty underlying all things.

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He may not be a hopeless romantic- a Romeo- but knows how to create a sense of romance when needed. He may not care about anniversaries or birthdays but does so because it is important to her. He may not care about the same things as she does, but shows an interest because he knows and understands her interests, her friends and her family are an extension of her.

This man can compromise, but also knows when to put his Queen in her place. Boldly and gently, he has the ability to tell her where and when she is going wrong and gently steer her in the right direction again. He knows when to speak firmly and when to whisper, when to talk and when to listen. He knows when to wipe away her tears and when to let them fall. When hard times hit, this man does not hold grudges or punish but communicates. He speaks up for his rights and acknowledges hers.

He speaks highly of those he loves, holds them in high esteem; is not afraid to hold up his Queen. He demonstrates a tenacity, a commitment to sticking things through. He sees in her a partner, not a girlfriend, a partnership, not a lover. He sees a relationship as two people steering the boat together, working towards a greater vision. Two ships passing in the night is not an option. When one falls down one helps the other up. Giving up is not an option. This man, when he says “forever”, he means forever. He knows what he wants and who he was born to be. He isn’t afraid of “competition” because he recognises True Love when he experiences it and loyalty when he sees it. He knows his own worth and value. This man, although warm and affectionate, is a …a soldier when it comes to protecting his Kingdom. An Archangel Michael protector with a heart of gold. Courageous lion with the heart of a cuddling bear. He knows when to bare his teeth and when to bear his heart.

He delivers on his promises as he knows it strengthens Trust in which solid foundations are set. He does not seek to make her jealous or destablise her; he only wants to build her up and enhance her. He knows the stronger he builds her, the stronger the union. When he looks her in the eye, he sees his children before him…the mother of his children.. and his heart cries out to love and protect her with fibre in is body, with every waking day; for in him are the makings of a loving father, one who would lie down his life for them no matter the circumstance, season or tide. He sees in his future family, a sense of achievement, legacy and pride. He is the King of his castle and he sees his woman as his Queen. Whatever they do have or do not, they work through life together as a team. The Good, The Bad, The Ugly. For this is how True Love works you see.

But how can he be all these things? I hear you ask.

For He, is a reflection of Her……

Daniella Blechner

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Would You Like a Dedication in the Mr Wrong Book?

Would you like a dedication in Mr Wrong? Would you like an excerpt, poem or free book or even a special feature on my blog? Then please donate to the Mr Wrong Crowd Fund appeal. My challenge is to raise £1000 in 18 days. So far I have £405…. The costs will go towards: *publishing costs £199 initial , *distribution, *editing,*proofreading *book cover design *author page *book review *marketing plan.
As most of you know, I set up this blog nearly two years ago with the view to write a book called Mr Wrong. I am proud to say that that book is now finally complete and it is finally time to give birth to something that is designed to unite, inspire and empower. Please see my campaign below. Let’s make it happen!
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Short Summary

My name is Daniella Blechner and after two years, have finally completed writing  a book called Mr Wrong (73’000 words.) Mr Wrong comes after a decade of bad luck with the opposite sex. I no longer make a secret of it and claim it to empower others. Mr Wrong is a  collection of stories and experiences written by women who have encountered Mr Wrong. The aim of the book is to empower, inspire and unite women by sharing our stories. It’s time to stop blaming and berating ourselves by getting  rid of Mr Wrong and claiming Mr Right! Men also have their say in the book, allowing the book to explore a balanced view of the role both men and women have in relationships. Are men given a bad rap? What role do women play?

The book is a self-help relationship book that allows the reader to interact through exercise, quizzes and meditations. It questions belief systems, explores the Power of Forgiveness and the importance of Loving, Blessing and Letting Go of old baggage. It is a book of journeying and self discovering.

As someone, who has experienced Mr Wrong a few times now, this book is close to my heart. . I want to share what I have learnt and give the opportunity for women and men all over the world to share their experiences too. The book and the stories it contains will make you laugh, make you cry and above all think. By contributing to the publishing of this book, you will be part of allowing hundreds or even thousands of potential readers to have access to these deeply personal and inspiring stories of empowerment, self discovery and change. This in turn, will allow them insight  into how to create positive changes and attract healthy relationships into their own lives. We are stronger than we think!

THE IMPACT: Mr Wrong takes both women and men on a journey of self-discovery allowing them to question their roles within relationships. Through exercises and affirmations it allows the reader to acknowledge any negative belief systems and prepare themselves for a more positive path ahead. Please read an excerpt here: Chapter 12: Start With You. https://dingdongitsmrwrong.wordpress.com/2013/08/22/chapter-2-start-with-you-2/

What We Need & What You Get

I will need £1000 to publish the book. I have selected a self publishing company that has already agreed to contribute some of the money as they can see the potential of the book. The £1000 will go towards:

*Cover design

*Editing

*Proof reading

*PR and Marketing plan

* Distribution

* Publication and proof copy

PERKS!

All contributors will receive a free excerpt from the book plus a poem. Contributors who contribute £15+ will recieve a free copy of the book Mr Wrong and a dedication in the book. £25+ A free copy of Mr Wrong and a free copy of poetry anthology book 7 Shades of Love £50+ TWO copies of Mr Wrong . All of the above and an opportunity to feature on my blog dingdongitsmrwrong.wordpress.com promoting their business

Other Ways You Can Help

I understand that not everybody will be able to contribute financially. If this project appeals to you and you can see the benefit of such a book, please know that you can play a part in spreading the word about the book and this funding scheme.  You can:

Follow my Blog https://dingdongitsmrwrong.wordpress.com/about/ and share with others.

“Like” the Mr Wrong FaceBook page and share posts https://www.facebook.com/dingdongitsmrwrong?ref=hl

Follow me on twitter and tweet about the fund https://twitter.com/dingdongmrwrong

Blog about the Mr Wrong appeal and share this page with others.

I thank you in advance for you kind help and support in this project. All support and donations no matter how large or small are greatly appreciated.

CLICK ON THE LINK TO DONATE AND CLAIM YOUR PERK:

Daniella Blechner- author of Mr Wrong

  Daniella Blechner- author of Mr Wrong